Miss South Africa has seen its fair share of controversies over the years, from bullying to racism and favoritism.
This time, the focus is on Chidimma Adetshina, a former finalist with a Nigerian father and an allegedly Mozambican mother.
The 23-year-old recently withdrew from the competition, likely due to immense pressure and fear of online backlash. Here are five reasons why stepping back might have been the best decision for her.
1. Protecting Her Mental Health
In today’s world, mental health is crucial. During a recent episode of Crown Chasers, Chidimma shared her struggles with depression, anxiety, and even past suicide attempts.
She revealed how social media negativity had brought her to a breaking point before, and this time was no different. Cyberbullying is no joke, and her withdrawal could be a way to safeguard her well-being.
2. Chidimma Could Be A Victim In All Of This
Home Affairs Minister Leon Schreiber accused Chidimma’s mother of fraud and identity theft when registering her birth in 2001.
However, Chidimma was just a baby at the time and shouldn’t be held accountable for her mother’s actions.
She even agreed to a verification process, showing she had nothing to hide. It’s clear she didn’t knowingly put herself in harm’s way.
3. Xenophobia and Online Hate
Xenophobia in South Africa, especially against Nigerians, is an ugly reality. Social media platforms like Twitter (now X) often amplify this hatred.
Anonymous trolls have a field day stirring up negative sentiments, and Chidimma’s heritage made her an easy target. Removing herself from the spotlight could be a way to avoid further attacks.
Fraud
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— ChrisExcel (@ChrisExcel102) August 8, 2024
4. Knowing When to Walk Away
Not everyone is meant to win crowns or titles like Miss SA, and that’s okay. Walking away doesn’t mean defeat—it can be a sign of strength.
Chidimma’s decision to withdraw could be seen as a graceful exit, especially with an ongoing investigation by Home Affairs. Sometimes, letting go is the best way to protect oneself.
5. Using Her Experience for Good
Despite the challenges, Chidimma has a platform and a voice. She entered Miss SA with a mission to fight gender-based violence and empower women.
Even though she’s no longer in the competition, she can still use her experience to advocate for change and promote African unity. Last year, another finalist, Levern José, withdrew after being accused of bullying.
She later used her experience to grow and help others. Hopefully, Chidimma will do the same, turning this chapter into something positive.
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In the end, Chidimma’s decision to leave Miss SA might just be the first step toward something bigger and better for her future.