She left a polygamous relationship that made her feel worthless. Vuyokazi Nciweni was set to become one of Mpumelelo Mseleku’s wives, son of polygamist Musa Mseleku.
However, Vuyokazi decided to end the relationship, and over the weekend, her new lover, Chef Xolani Sabelo, sent his family to the Eastern Cape to pay her lobola.
Lobola negotiations were completed for Vuyokazi and Chef Sabelo, who are now planning their wedding.
Despite having two children with Mpumelelo, Vuyokazi says she has closed the Mseleku chapter and is ready to start a new life.
Vuyokazi said the relationship made her feel miserable and worthless, especially after Mpumelelo announced he would marry a virgin as his first wife.
“I constantly doubted my worth,” she said. “Some of the things he said about me were shocking and mean.” Vuyokazi was won over by Chef Sabelo’s kindness, charm, and romantic gestures, like buying her roses and chocolates—things she never experienced in her past relationship. “I chose myself. I chose someone who values me,” she added.
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Musa Mseleku can’t stomach the news of Vuyo leaving them he even unfollowed her as soon as engagement news broke https://t.co/knHLmfn6o1
— Alleged.com (@Yolokazi_chagi) August 4, 2024
May she live happily ever after..
— Madibuseng Solo (@MadibusengSolo) August 3, 2024
Was shocked that adults think that show is recorded in real-time haibo😂😂, even saw someone saying Vuyo was fighting for Mpumelelo last week, shuthi they’ve been on vacation for weeks 😂😂
— Zama💫 (@ZamaScribes) August 4, 2024